Should I stop being straight up honest about this, should I keep it a secret as long as possible or should I try to fake experience?
Would no sexual or relationship experience be a deal breaker to you at a given age of 28? Mainly for girls?
What Girls Said 6
I prefer guys with no sexual experience - they are more faithful and more committed to their girls. Unfortunately finding a 28 year old with no sexual experience is almost impossible but that's what I want.1
not having experience isn't a huge deal but lying about it is a big deal. If u say u have experince but u dont once u need to use it its going to be very obvious that u lied, U can't fake experience its better not to lie cause when she finds out ur lying then its bad. U can't fake it til u make it here its obvious.0
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Be upfront to her!
If you really like her, she will probably accept you, even if it might take a little while to adjust to.
Honestly, that's not really something to be ashamed of.
It's NOT something you can or should attempt to fake.0
What Guys Said 4
i lost my virginity at 19 and i lied to everybody about it. i pulled a girl on a one night stand and all my friends saw it. but none of them knew that i lost my virginity to that girl haha, not even she knew either :P just make sure you research a lot about sex with positions/foreplay etc if your gong to lie about being a liar, that way your not as shit.0
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i would hide it from the girl0
Same age, same situation so it's just my idea about it and not an actual "it will works for sure" thing.
I will wait at the last second but I will tell her.
By the last second, I mean that we are about to have sex anyway.
At that point, I would think that she is rather very interested (especially when I think of the time I take before considering someone as potential mate) and that she will handle that fact.
Anyway, don't tell her and even though numerous "documentation", it will probably reveal itself. I'd rather have her knowing that fact about me than thinking I'm just plain bad (I base myself on the fact that first time are not usually the best).
The trick (still rhetorical since, you know...) is not to be ashamed when telling her. You waited, you had reasons (at least, I had). Confidence is a key that opens many doors.
To sum it up :
- Wait at the last minute
- Do tell or your body will tell (rhetoric knowledge is not practical knowledge)
- Keep confident. If she's into you, she'll probably find it cute (It's somewhat exposing a very intimate secret)0
I'm 23 and I'm still a virgin. But If you do ever have sex, just act like you know what you're doing. That's what I'd do.0
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