I have never had a boyfriend, and I really want one. Any tips on getting a good guy to like me?
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Feminists will hate this, but... The key to attracting men is to... Be a woman. Not super submissive, but yes, submissive. Few men want a demanding woman. That does not mean you are his doormat. But if you love being a woman, if you want to make a man happy (I am not just talking about sex. Sex is for after marriage. I mean making him meals, cleaning the house, etc. I make my meals, I clean my place. I want someone to make my life easier, not harder!) then men will find you irresistible. Sorry liberated women, but it is true!
Be careful, though. There are men out there who will woo you, and play you, just to take your virginity. Your virginity is a gift you can only give one man, and only one time. It is very precious. It will forever bond you to him, which is why it is best to wait for sex until after marriage, when he has proven he loves you beyond your body, by not sleeping with you.
A man worth having will NOT ask you for sex, until he has told you he wants to spend the rest of his life with you, and waited for the honeymoon to take you.
How do you know when you have found him? Your instincts will tell you the same thing that your heart is. Do not be deceived, your heart is very deceitful! When your instincts and heart align, that is the man worthy of your love. And yes... There are men who are not worthy of your love at all. These are men who will cheat, who will treat you like a commodity. Who will not love you. Who will not esteem you like his most prized possession (His Precious wife! His mate! His Earthly everything. Some will be offended by this term, possession, but my mate will belong to me. And guess what- I also belong to her. I am her possession as well. I am her man, her mate, her love. I am hers, and hers alone, and she is mine, and mine alone. To be shared with no one else.) on Earth.4
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