I've never really had luck getting a boyfriend. In school no guys wanted to be with me bc I was that girl everyone bullied and that would ruin there rep. Now that I'm older people I've met online have said I'm pretty, but I just don't see it being bullied constantly from k-12 and called ugly so many times a day. Now a days no guys really give me a second look. Or don't believe me when I tell them I am 20. I look I guess a lot younger then I am and my parents friends are always shocked when I say I'm 20 or just conversations that come up. I've had a few fights with a couple guys saying "there's no way your 20 you look 14" I get anywhere between 14-17 never my actual age 20. And it doesn't help that I'm only 5'3 and most people around my age is taller. How do I go about getting a boyfriend my age If guys just don't believe I'm actually 20 :/ Ik it should be a compliment but when I'm actually struggling to find a guy that's over 18 at least bc I don't wanna be creepy and date a 15 yr old I want a guy close to my age. It's just so hard. Especially when no one believes me. And for the height. Heels wouldn't work bc I'm so clumpsy I'd end up falling flat on my face I'm just so self conscious about everything
What do I do in this situation?
What Guys Said 4
Well... try online dating... your profile will prove that your an adult... and dont worry about your highth... Im 6'-6"... and i find shorter females to be adorable... dont worry... Im 37 and the last real girlfriend i had was when i was 20... and she was your highth...0
im 20 and i look 15 i was a late bloomer so struggling to grow that facial hair. for a guy its a lot harder because we are meant to be masculine and alittle rough i guess. but for a girl, looking alittle younger is harmless, most guys won't mind. i sure as hell dont mind at all if she looks abit younger. the girl im seeing now is 5.2" and she looks about 15-16 and is 19. i think your over thinking it hun, its really not as big of a issue as u might think and besides your still young. also if u look young, 20 years from now you'll appreciate the fact that you look younger0
If u wanna get a boyfriend first you have to believe in ur self that you can get anytng you want in ur life0
i have never had a gf and i was called ugly dont worry you are not alone0
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