I have had trust issues in the past and still do from guys I have dated in the past. My bf and i have been dating for almost 11 months and lived together for 9 months as he is the one that asked me to move in with him. He can be a jerk but then again he can be a sweetheart which is why I stay with him. Well his dad can also be a jerk which I think just runs in the fsmily. I do over think things which is another problem. I have accused him of cheating but I have no proof I just think it in the back of my head when he is out with friends or flirts with a girl. My ex cheated on me which is now my fear of my current bf doing the same. Sometimes I will think he is texting another girl. He let's me see his phone whenever. Something thay bugs me is how he gets turned on by girls to easy. He says he doesn't and thay I just think it because I don't trust him. He knows my issues but yet he still stays with me. I've told him before that maybe we need a break but he never wants to. He always tells me he will never cheat on me. And he wants to be with me forever. But sometimes he doesn't act like he wants too. How can I stop thinking he is cheating on me?
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What do you mean sometimes he doesn't act like he wants to? Everyone's a jerk sometimes, but it sounds like the guy is pretty decent. When you get suspicions just think about how he's never done anything to make you not trust him, and hanging out with friends that are girls isn't really anything bad. He shouldn't be flirting with other girls though, unless you meant you just thought he might be doing that.
It does sound like you don't trust him, which is understandable given your situation from before, but you really just need to work on trusting him more day to day. He isn't your last boyfriend, so there's no reason he'd do the same thing your last boyfriend did.0