Ladies when you play hard to get is it because you have low interest in the guy? There seems to be a general male consensus that when a woman plays hard to get, she's generally not really interested in that guy but likes the attention he provides. Would you say this is true?
If not how would you describe the reasoning behind your playing hard to get, and which point is it TOO hard to get, i. e. if you keep postponing plans, or sending mixed signals when do you realize you need to stop or else you're going to lose the guy (assuming you are actually interested).
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There are three types of "hard to get" women:
1. The girl who's ACTUALLY playing hard to get. She downplays her interest in you in order to make you chase her. She also does it to not seem desperate or clingy.
2. The girl who's simply shy. Shy people might seem like they're hard to get, but really, they're just having trouble speaking up and letting you in.
3. The girl who isn't trying to play hard to get - she's really just not that into you. Some guys believe that her "no" means "yes", when really, it just means "no". Plain and simple.
So it all depends on how you interpret a girl's actions. Is she playing hard to get, or is she just shy? Or maybe she's not interested at all? Who knows. You'll figure it out eventually.4
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