So I've been going out with a girl for about 2 months now. Everything was going great until about 3 weeks ago. We were just hanging out, and I decided to open up to her a little bit. I told her that b4 we started dating I was having a rough time with some stuff, and that since we started dating things had gotten a lot better for me. I told her that she helped me get through it, and that I really appreciated that she spends time with me. My intention was to be sweet, and tell her that I really care about her, and I won't lie, I was hoping she would responded in a similar fashion. However, she responded a little too casually. She pretty much nodded and said, "That's nice"... now keep in mind this was three weeks ago, so that isn't exactly what she said, but that was the gist of it.
Anyways, ever since then every time I ask her if she wants to hangout, or anything, she sorted just dances around the question, and doesn't give me a straight answer. I feel like she's avoiding me. We haven't spent anytime, just the two of us, in like 2 weeks.
Also, the other day I was at a party, and she was there too. So as her boyfriend, I naturally go and try to spend time with her. But every time we started to talk, or dance, she would stick around for like 5 mins, and then go run off somewhere. Keep in mind she is a fairly social person, and I am a little on the more casual side when it comes to parties, but even then I found like she didn't want to spend time with me. What makes things even more confusing is one of her friends, who i hadn't met before that night, kept telling me how much my GF likes me. I should mention that her friend was pretty liquored up at this point.
Now, I'm pretty upset right now because I REALLY like this girl and don't want to break up, but I'm starting to get a vibe that may mean she doesn't feel the same way.
Can someone please give me some advice to see if I am actually in trouble, or just thinking too much.
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I can come up with 2 explanations...
I think she might be doing stuff behind your back and is trying to push you away without completely hurting you. Which is messed up but everyone has done it once in their lives, or at least I have before. And I've had it done to me before.
The other explanation is that she is trying to see if you'll put more effort in. Like kind of testing you a little bit, in that case if you really like her and don't mind playing that game then I would say just put more effort in. But if you're anything like me you'd find that immature and pull away.1