Im no good at dating. AT ALL Im terrible at finding good men. I thought I was seeing a decent guy but Im growing suspicious. I mean we are ONLY dating and have not had sex. (I won't without commitment) but after two weeks he told me he couldn't make a relationship a priority right now.
We still hang out and talk almost every day. If I text him he replies right away. He's also been very kind
HOWEVER, I notice on FB he likes a lot of hit girls pics and comments on their posts. More then anything else he comments on. I don't know where he is every night at all and he does have a lot of female "friends"
Tonight a girl commented on his post "i wish i could kiss your brain" wwwww
Please help Maybe I know the answer but I need a push
PS I am attractive and smart, so I don't feel that Im not good enough I just don't know if he is.
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No, he's not a player.
You know the saying, if you meet one asshole in the day, you met an asshole? But if you meet assholes ALL day, then YOU'RE the asshole?
It's like that in relationships. Your mistrust, your baggage, your suspicions, are what make you bad at dating. Not the men you choose. This guy sounds like a regular normal guy, but you're not sleeping with him, so he sees no need to prioritise you or your friendship/pseudo-relationship.
That doesn't make him a player.0