What are your deal-breakers when looking for a possible relationship? I want answers from both sexes, opinions can be as controversial as you like?

Whether it be an ideal weight range, ideal looks that aren't there, ideal traits in personality which they don't have, etc. What breaks the deal?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • I don't like controlling people. When they act like, you do because you have to do, this pisses me off.
    And i like to be appreciated. If even a little kind words don't come after the things for them, i just feel dumb. This is not i am expecting sth in return, just a little word makes me happy. I don't like ungrateful people.
    Arrogant ones. They always know better than you. They act like rest is waste. I just can't stand them.
    And the judgmental people.. They judge every one, even they don't know.
    Last one, materialistic ones, who think they can have everything just because they have money.

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What Guys Said 7

  • drug use of any kind, no ambition, no plans or goals for their life, selfishness, disrespectful to their parents, party girls that only care about partying and getting wasted, drunken antics and drama, irresponsibility, laziness and a sense of entitlement that everyone owes them something.

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  • Materialist, goes gaga over someone's car, always keeping up with celebrity gossip, a complete slave to fashion. I mean, it's good to be fashionable, but you need to opt out of some trends that don't look good on YOU.

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  • I could write an endless list of things, but in short:

    Unhealthy (mentally and physically)
    Selfish
    Materialistic
    Sexist
    Weak (mentally)
    Can't communicate
    Contrasting beliefs and morals
    No integrity
    Unhonest
    Sociopathic

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  • Being high maintenance.
    Being overweight.
    Being overly opinionated.
    Being a self-confessed feminist.
    Being controlling.
    Being clingy.
    Having a history of unfaithfulness.
    Displaying selfishness.
    Showing a lack of respect.
    Displaying no intelligence or wit.
    Having a lot of tattoo's.
    Going out and getting drunken and disorderly every single weekend.

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  • Fat
    Ugly
    Stupid
    Tattoos, piercings, smoking, drugs, heavy drinking, whore

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  • I like females that are independent and care and respect themselves.

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What Girls Said 6

  • Has no drive. Or ambitions no passions make me feel he does have a care.
    Not fam orientated. Has no respect or comsideration. Does drugs. Has ever cheated. Also if they have mommy issues that a red flag since I tend to date people who do. I prefer dark hair guys but it really doesn't matter.

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  • Well haven't had a boyfriend yet.. but:
    Racist, homophobic (MAYBE I can get over that. We could just not talk about it), shorter than me, doing drugs, too clingy, depressed (I am already a bit sad and trying to change, don't need another person like me), no integrity, dumb, heavy drinking very often, unfaithful before, liars, jerks, no ambition or goal in life, only cares about partying. All deal-breakers for me.

    I didn't mention about looks because I am a bit overweight so don't think I can have the biggest standards, but my deal-breakers are:
    spikes hairstyle
    unattractive face

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  • can't be abusing
    can't be controlling
    no black guys
    can't be too short
    Being creepy
    acting stupid
    being a douchebag
    being unhonest
    not being caring
    cheating
    no sense of humor
    Being big headed
    being rude
    being too sexual in the wrong place and wrong time
    being too serious
    over reacting
    putting himself first
    being un caring
    being too tired for sex
    using excuses
    cheating with my girlfriends aka bffs and group
    /:

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  • I dont date racists, homophobic people, those who hit people, smoke pot or use other drugs or those who cheat.
    And he has to be tall because I am tall.

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  • Drugs
    Obese
    Ignorant
    Naive
    Selfish
    Rude
    Clingy
    Controlling
    Liars
    Cheaters

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  • There are a few things i guess:
    If they're hard to talk to
    Racist/Homophobic etc (prejudiced basically)
    Molesters/murders etc (pretty obvious but anyway:)
    Cheaters/liars
    Being controlling or clingy
    Manipulators
    Dumb, obnoxious, rude or vulgar
    Drug addict
    Physically/emotionally abusive
    Self centered and ungrateful
    Has a problem with what i say and how i behave (if you don't like me leave! That simple.)
    I think insincerity is my biggest deal breaker.

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