Let's say you've been seeing someone, going out on dates, texting, and everything like a normal couple would do, but how come you won't commit in a relationship with that significant other? What makes you not want to commit in a relationship?
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i'm going to take a stab at this even if i'm way outside your age range and generation lol...
many guys now a days actually at present see no benefit in a committed relationship they've seen and heard of too many couples (married & otherwise) break up , cheating and if married get fianacial raped in divorced courts... I know you'll say that doesn't apply to me (it may not you could be one of the good ones) but unfortuanatly 70 to 90% of all divorces are filed by women in todays world.. however women have caught up and surpassed men in the cheating world... to many young men have seen it even from jr high and on through college age young people.. or its something that's happened to them in their past relationships at some time.. oh there are guys out there that will commit and do it whole heartedly but they know and believe in their hearts they have a good one.. by that they've shown their men there is no way that they would do anything that would hurt their SO (bf's) .. and prove I by not doing anything.. some guys find themselves in relationships were their girlfriends best guy friend seems more important than them and spend more time texting , chatting and whatever than they do with their boyfriend =(bf) don't laugh it has and does happen all the time.. a deffination of a relationship is between 2 people and has no 3rd party ties involved in it. OK TO SET THE RECORD STAIGHT I'M NOT SAYING THAT YOUR THIS WAY.
YOU ASK A QUESTION AND I'M GIVING YOU several REASON WHY SOME GUYS MIGHT ACT LIKE THAT so don't take this response personally because it wasn't meant as a personal attack on you1
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