Ok so if you read my first question you know that my boyfriend is in panama for a week with his other guy friends. Before he left he actually asked me 'What are you going to do if girls come back to our room? ' I told him that I'm going to break up with him if that happens because all the guys have girlfriends and I don't think that I should have to worry about that while he's there getting drunk (that's all he's talked about doing, getting wasted) We argued about that 2 weeks before he left and then he said 'i was just saying that stuff about girls coming to our room just to piss you off. ' I just don't get why he would do that, especially if he didn't want to fight in the first place. It just seems like he's trying to upset me on purpose. And now that he is in Panama, I've heard from him once. I haven't called him or anything because I know he's on vacation with his friends and I don't expect to hear from him a lot while he's there but he could at least reply to a simple 'goodnight, I love you' text message at some point. Couldn't he?
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I was deployed down in Panama and Colombia on military operations for a good while so I know the area in and out. We stayed at hotels some times and at night the casino area was SWAMPED with whores. Rather crazy in my book. Later I went out in town and discovered a lot of the local gals will prostitute themselves for money. The economy in the region isn't the greatest.
Getting back to my story, several guys told their girls and wives they were just getting drunk and hanging with the guys. The arguing part on his behalf gives him a form of emotional dampening to go out and mess around. I know because my friend at the time did the exact same thing with his girlfriend. Now, is he sleeping around? I can't say yes or no. I don't know the guy so I can't make that call. Of course if he was serious about you then I fail to see why he would even bring up the topic of having women back at his room. Makes no sense.
About the contact thing, he could yes text you if he had some sort of international cell phone plan or he went and bought a local phone. I bought a SIM card for my phone so I could call my folks without being raped by the hotel's phone bill. There are like 5 billion internet cafe joints in the capital alone too. Will he though? True, he is on vacation and the point of a vacation is to disappear. You are wise not to call him for that would just make him feel smothered.
If he loves you truly then technically you have nothing to worry about. Then again you are here wondering about the situation which means you doubt the trust between you. Not a good thing. If he cheated and feels guilty you will know. If he cheated and doesn't then the love you thought was strong in reality was false. You will find out when he gets back I am afraid.1