Guys and girls!
What kind of tactics do you "use" after the first date?
Who contacts who, is it okay for a girl to say "hey had a great time today, maybe we can hang out again sometime" ? and wait for the guy to take initiative to ask her out again?
Most Helpful Guy
After the 1st date, the girl should give the guy 3 days (max) to ask her out with at least a tentative date. If he doesn't ever hit you up, wait 3 days then ask him what he's doing on X day, etc.
It's OK for a girl to follow-through with things... it's just that the guy, by default, is the one to get the ball rolling first.
It's a game of checkers, not chess. In fact, it shouldn't be a game at all if you both mutually enjoyed a decent 1st date. You just shouldn't repeatedly contact them when they don't respond -- that's all.0