I've been dating this guy for about 2 months- he seemed nice but stressed out as he lost his job recently. The other night I made him dinner and after he tasted the food he said "This is awful, you put no effort into this at all". Then I suggested a movie and 15 minutes into it he got up, shut it off and said "I couldn't take it anymore, this is the worst movie I've ever seen". When I called him out he said "I'm just a very honest person". Deal breaker?
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A lot of people who say they're "just very honest" or "blunt" are trying to make their tactlessness sound like a good thing, it's not. And no one should ever say that kind of thing to anyone, but if he's throwing that much shade after 2 months, run. Surely he isn't the only person who has ever been stressed out, the last time you were stressed can you think of something mean you said, just to be mean? Probably not, because you're an adult.3