I told my ex's new gf about his manipulative and narcissistic ways. She obviously is hoping he will change but anyways I told her. I'm not afraid of him anymore or what he has to say because it was my experience with him. He can lie to her all he wants but the truth won't change. It's like letting someone know about a bad product you bought in a store.
Would you have done the same and let someone know?
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I would have only told her about him if he had a history of violent crime, or serious criminal misconduct, or was a dangerous person for you and any potential children to be around.
The fact that he is "manipulative" and "narcissistic" in your opinion isn't necessary for her to hear from you. For one thing, she won't leave him over this if they just started dating. Her definitions of "manipulative" and "narcissistic" may be drastically different from your definitions of these terms. He could very well be a different (and good) man for her (I know that this can be hard to hear, let alone believe). Even if he is the same clown for her you dealt with, she'll have to make that decision all on her own, anyways.
Just wish them luck, and hopefully a man enters your life that is a better fit for you than he was.0
I guess it doesn't matter if your motives are in the right place, neutral.0
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