So I will not write a wall of text here, instead i will describe one scenario that happened last night, i know my self it is a red flag, but i do give people the benefit of the doubt.
Foreword: there have been red flags here and there throughout the last 2 months.
We planned to meet Monday as she finished work early, at 2.
So i send her a message, asking if we was still good for today, the reply i got was "Can i see how i feel later... i feel shattered hun, ill let you know x"
Later that day, at around midnight, she texts me about a subject that has nothing to do with meeting up nor anything to do with the fact that she never replied and this is my GF, not just some girl i date or currently see.
Now she NEVER puts on make up when she goes to work, EVER. In fact, sometimes when we meet up she doesn't even bother with make up, tells me over skype, as we chat (with her cam off) that she is just lying in bed naked, feeling tiered and with make up all over the place, at which point i told her "ahh u got make up on, i thought you didn't wear make up to work" really easy and light, since at that point i was too good in a mood about something else going on in my life to let it bring my mood down, at which point i clearly (100%) heard her say "oh... uhm... yeah... i felt like putting on make up today for work..." she works at a nursery with little kids that sometimes paint her face and what not.
so i am 99% sure with all the past shit, that she is seeing someone else...
I told her b4, if she wants to have a light easy open relationship, i am fine with that, at least i can start looking at getting a girl that wants something serious, she keeps saying no... she wants me.
I know there is a dude at her weekend job, she used to be good mates with and regularly talks to, probably him she met up with.
Any opinions are more than welcome
Also Question to the girls:
Why would you string someone along on a BS relationship?
he doesn't work with her during the week, and only works part time so i am 100% sure she met with him or someone else... who the fuck puts on makeup to walk the dog