I have a hard time deciding whether to ask strictly women, or men for this question, so I will simply leave it open. Anyhow, I have never been a particularly mean individual or a particularly insensitive once but for some reason I have a really hard time connecting with women when I meet them... Whether I am a perfect gentleman, a complete asshole, or just being my regular self, they never seem to be attracted to me in the way that I am (at times) attracted to them. Any tips, or advice would be awesome, thank you before hand.
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If a woman's not attracted to you, there's no mystery: it means she's not attracted to you. The reasons don't matter, and women (as individuals and as a group) aren't worth understanding, because they're mostly insecure and don't understand themselves. Browse through their questions on this site for the proof.
She doesn't like you? Move on. Try to find another girl. If she doesn't like you, move on again. Repeat. Don't take it personally; think of it like trying on one pair of shoes after another until you get a good fit.1