I am 37. Just got out of a long term relationship and i want to date and sleep with many women for a while.
I don't want to be a jerk or a player. I don't want to break any girls heart.
I met a girl in a shop and i told her she was attractive.. she is around 33 years old. we messaged back and forth for 1 month ( we live a bit far ) . We are going on a date Thursday ( after tomorrow) . I know she likes me and i think she is cute and sexy.
I don't want a relationship at the moment. I don't want to be exclusive. I want to date her. take her to cool places, make her enjoy and have fun and me as well. And have good sex.
How can i , in a decent way , convey this? On the first date? second or third date? After we kiss? before? Before sex or after?
Am i just jumping into assumption that all women would date only for relationships? Or could she also looking for just pure fun?
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I once met a guy who waited until after the third date to tell me he wasn't looking for a realtionship. That was definitly too long. You should tell her as soon as possible. But don't just throw it at her. That might be a bit overwhelming. Casually direct the conversation into this direction and then tell her about your intentions. Don't lead her on. The fact that you texted over a month could probably already have given her the impression that you were looking for something serious so don't make it worse. You should probably also point out that you don't mind if she is not okay with just having a casual relationship. Otherwise she might feel pressured.1