His girl I used to work with and I are friends. She has a boyfriend but I'm pretty sure she likes me. She's hot and we email
Chat all the time. When we worked together she was the first to email me and we'd talk quite a bit. Now that I've left it's mostly me starting it off email chats but she will go back and forth with me for a couple days and always has lots of smiley faces for me in her emails. The thing is she will just cut it off and like stop responding back at a certain point usually. Like if I feel getting somewhere with her shell stop which sucks bc she's hot. She mentioned something about doing lunch awhile back with a mutual friend. We never went, but in recently asked her to go with a mutual fiend and she said ok then cancelled. Don't know what to think? What should I do?
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First off I am going to say this because I am a woman and I think its relevant. So what if she is hott, there are most likely plenty of other things about her that are worth pining over. I only say this because you probably don't even like her, you just think she is hott and you enjoy the fact that she is hard to get because she has a boyfriend. Guys usually want what they cannot have. My advice as a female would be to not pursue her at all, and drop all contact with her. Let her come to you. If she actually likes you she will pursue you, just like you have been pursuing her. If you stop communication and she messages you on the regular, then she may be in to you. At that time I'd do the responsible thing and ask her if she has feelings for you, and if she says no then respect it and if she says yes, then you have an entirely new problem on how you move forward. She probably stops talking to you because you A) can't keep the conversation platonic, or B) she feels bad for talking to you because she likes you.0