So I been talking to this amazing guy. We have a lot of quemistry everything's good. He was very honest about the fact that he has a kid who's not even a year old, with his best friend. This happened cause he was deployed and she found out after he left. He's very much a good dad , spends time with him looks after him etc. Im unsure how I should feel about all of this since I never dated a guy with kids before but I know this is becoming more common nowadays. He is 23 and I'm 19 almost 20. How should I act? I want to be with him if he is really interested will he have time for both of us?
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I had a kid at the same age as him.
And a kid is a major part of him.
If you accept and care for him, you're going to have to
feel the same way about his child.
No one is asking you to immediately step into the Mother role.
But if your relationship becomes serious you have to be okay with that role
and learn to love that kid has your own.
If you're okay with possibly doing that in the future, then don't treat him any
Take one day at a time, ride this thing out, and see where it leads you.
Kids are a joy!0