I have been single for 3 years now.. I am good looking, take care of myself, good job, good friends… but Im so tired of being single. I never wanted to settle with someone I wasn't in love with. I keep meeting men but there's never the perfect connection, there's always something wrong… Im tired of being single… I can get sex if i want to but what I need now is a life partner, someone who will love me and who I can give my love to, someone to count on. Im so tired of the superficial relationships, hypocrisy dating scene… All those short, empty dating stories are starting to hurt my feelings, my mood and my self esteem. I feel like shit right now…
How do you stay positive being single for so long?
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Hey, I have been single for 7 years now, not counting the short meaningless relationships. I know how you feel or maybe not, because those 7 years I wasn't able to let go of someone who was very dear to me but unfortunately moved away. The reason I am writing to you though, is because everyone kept telling me, don't worry you'll meet the right one and you'll forget about her, you'll learn to move on as soon as the right one would appear. Well I think I'm at that point of my life, but it is too soon to tell yet. The only thing I call tell you is. you've been waiting for 3 year. For me it has been 7 and I happier then I ever was. So maybe you're time hasn't come yet, don't worry it will. Maybe this sounds "cliché" (like what everyone else always says), but it will happen, and when it does, you didn't even had time to see it coming.
Also I'd like to say something else, but before I do I just want to say I AM NOT CALLING YOU A SLUT!
Since you didn't develop enough on the subject of sex, I cannot really know if you're someone who just jumps into the bed with a guy you kinda appreciate just because you're not feeling good with yourself and maybe by having sexual intercourse with someone you feel better, worth something... this is not the way to go. Maybe this isn't even the case, but as I said before, you didn't develop enough for me to rule this out.
So here is my advice if this is the case. Get to know someone, start having some male friends. Having Sex is a great feeling and sure I makes us feel better, women or men…that's the great things about sex, but maybe getting to know someone, without sex even being in the picture is how you get to know someone that's worth having the patience.
Every man will hate me for saying this, but I have to:
There are always guys who are not looking for the real thing... those who are will not care that you do not wish to engage in sexual intercourse right away.
Take your time, you'll find the right one ;)0