If you were the opposite gender, would you date yourself?

If you were the opposite gender, would you date yourself?
if yes, why, if no, why not?

[too short? I think not!]

  • I would
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  • I would not
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  • Unsure
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  • *too good to pick the other options*
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Most Helpful Girl

  • Nah, probably not. I have a hard time opening up to people. If I was someone else, I'd grow tired of trying to get me to trust me. That sounds... weird. But hopefully you get it :P

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    • That may not actually be a bad thing, personally I find it
      interesting getting to know people.

      Trying to get through that "barrier" is what's fun ^.~

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    • I guess that's a good thing. :P It's not that I don't want to open up, it's just that I can't. And if I pressure myself, it makes me close up even more. So I don't know. You're probably in the minority, haha. Most guys would think that I'm too much effort.

    • I like to think I'm a people person and can read what someone is feeling just by watching them. I've never tried this with someone who has a hard time opening up but I would take it as a challenge and if she was someone I was interested in I wouldn't mind if it took a while.

      with that said guys like us may be rare but we are around.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I'd either date myself or I'd still be chasing after women. It's hard to say.

    No, but seriously, yeah it would. I think I'm a very good catch, and I say that with all modesty. :-)

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    • you seem like you have a really good personality
      and based on your profile picture, I can say that
      you're also sitting in some decent looks.

      you have good eyes, anyone ever tell you that? :3

    • Wow, thanks! I really appreciate that. :-)

      It seems like lots of people like colored eyes on GaG. It's not something I've encountered this much before. But again, thank you, that's very kind of you. :-)

    • Just speaking the truth :)

What Girls Said 12

  • I bet you are so fond of yourself that is why
    you think of this question all the time... eh Caesar? :P
    www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q661365-would-you-date-yourself

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    • I would make a good girl, I swear :3

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    • Oh yeah..
      Umm.. what's the point if my partner is exactly like me?
      I mean, nobody is perfect, and it is preferable that the
      partners complete each other, right? ^-^

      But I know where you are coming from..
      "If you don't love yourself, don't expect others to love you."
      In that case, yes, I would.
      I would be a cute nice guy who I would trust blindly. xD

      Is that what you expected? :P

    • Closely so :3

  • I would honestly, cause I understand myself. I know I can be a good girlfriend if I ever get the chance. However, I probably wouldn't have the confidence to ask.

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    • Always the confidence :3
      gotta remember that, even that hot catch of a guy over
      there, who's made a fortune as a designer, is
      just a normal person like you and me ^.~

  • Well, I don't find myself likeable or attractive, but yes, I'd love to date an exact (female) replica of me. It would be so easy to not have to change for someone else.. I know I'd be able to keep myself satisfied.

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    • Oh, I misunderstood the question. No, it wouldn't be any easier unless I could still be female.

  • Looks wise, I think I would like someone more attractive, but personality, yes. I could even improve her (me) to feel confident :D haha

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    • I honestly don't think there's anything wrong with
      how you look, and I'm "really" picky, when it comes to that.

      So don't be so harsh on yourself,
      although humility is good too.

      But I guess it's just as you said, that you could
      improve "her" confidence :3

    • Well that's just my face and the effect :P The body's the problem, but thank you :)
      Yeah if I had more confidence I guess things would be a bit better, but I am trying to change :3

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  • Definitely, yes. Sounds selfish but I don't care, I honestly think I'm gorgeous lmao. Only flaw is my short stature.

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    • There's nothing wrong with being short.
      everyone is different, and I know some
      prefer a short gf :3

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    • I'm 5'1 so if you dated me you could feel tall. :P

    • @still_waiting it takes time to accept and then embrace yourself. For me it only happened after getting into fashion. Seeing all these beautiful models with such unique, unconventionally pretty features that make them stand out, plus that fierce attitude inspire me!
      @kairon156 we would be the same! lol

  • I'm not sure.. I think I would just piss myself off truthfully :D

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  • No , I'm way too full of sh*t to handle and my brain is way too complicated

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  • No I'm not my type =(

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  • Personality wise yes and looks are mediocre so yh why not

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  • Personality wise I'd give myself a chance. I've been told I'm an interesting person. I know I'm funny, and I'm a good empathizer.
    So I've got a few good traits but I'm also really neurotic and moody and often depressed for no reason and I anger easily. I've got some bad ones too, but I'd still give me a chance.
    Looks wise, I don't know what I'd be into as a guy. Probably not me lol

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    • You're right, personality wise you do
      sound very interesting.

      And for looks, even though I'm sure you look better
      than you think, it's usually like that.

      But, confidence can make you seem better looking
      even when there's no real change :3

  • Heck yea I would because I would make an awesome partner

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What Guys Said 14

  • Only if I was looking to learn something or make some progress in my life because the male version of me tends to have a lot of useless knowledge and a desire to teach and study with others.

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    • Ok, no knowledge is completely useless (also some girls like it)
      and a desire to teach is never a bad thing, perhaps
      you could be a teacher? :)

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    • We would make good friends then ^.~

    • You never know :P

  • Personality wise, yes. My loyality to my partner is unweavering and ironclad solid. Pledge it over my life. So being in a r/s with myself would see no cheating ever.

    But physically, erm. Well, will I have to have my own face but with long hair? O. O

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    • Naww, you'd still be you, but if you were born as a girl
      nothing creepy like what you were thinking :3

      Also, there's really nothing wrong with your looks
      for one, I can see that you have amazing cheekbones
      and as you pose yourself in the picture, I would think
      that confidence wasn't an issue either ^.~

  • fuck yeah I would im awesome:D

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  • Yeah, I know this guy, he is softhearted, he is easy to forgive and combination of cuteness and innocent. He is not showing his real emotion he deny his needs but like a servant he always understand your feelings.
    Yeah i would date this guy. Plus he has a beautiful smile. hahaha...

    :)

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  • I don't really know. I don't make for a very good looking guy so I imagine I wouldn't be a very pretty girl. But I do like my personality, so I'd be a good catch. Though if I was dating myself I don't see the relationship lasting long cuz we'd be too much alike. Where's the fun in that?

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  • I would totally make my day by asking out the male version of myself, or by being completely straightforward and saying obvious (obvious to a male) things that would let male version of me know to ask me out and that I really like him for who he is.

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  • I date myself all the time.

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  • I probably wouldn't even notice myself, I'm too quiet

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  • On looks? No.
    On personality? ... Maybe? Lol, I'm weird.

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  • No if a girl is as f*cked up as I am, most definitely not!

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  • Off corse i would, i am awsome :D

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  • I would coz I love myself :D

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  • I like who I am. I would want to loose some weight and get my teeth fixed before I start to date someone though

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  • Yeah without a doubt, I'm pretty much perfect. Only problem is I don't know how to flirt

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    • That's not really a problem. as a girl, just be as cute
      as you can, and guys will come running ^.~

    • Yeah I was thinking of it the other way round, if a girl was me would I date her. And I'd want to but I wouldn't know how to make a move :P

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