I'm beginning to really wonder.
I've been in 2 relationships over the last 5 years, and both guys ended up telling me they didn't love me so that's how it ended.
I went online to try and find someone and I met this guy who I thought was really interested in me. He treated me wonderfully, opened doors, paid for dinner, and was very affectionate.
I was falling for this guy, hard. Before I met him I was just casually online, not really looking for anything, just talking to guys. I wasn't looking for love. But I found him.
Well after 4 dates, and a 5th one planned I was ready to make a move. I was planning on making a nice dinner for him and having some wine and then asking him if he saw us together.
But he texted me this morning, the date was planned for hte evening, and he cancelled saying that although he liked me, I don't give him those fluttery feelings.
So I guess I don't know what to do. I accept that this guy doesn't have fluttery feelings. But it seems like I don't give any guys those fluttery feelings.
I'm a really great girl!! Really I am, people always tell me how sweet I am. Yet I am getting more and more depressed and sad because I can't find a guy who can appreciate that and fall in love with that.
I want to have a family one day and get married. But I don't think that's going to happen unless I can fix myself so that I can be loved. But I don't know what part is broken?
Anyone have any ideas? I'm a confident girl! People tell me all the time that I'm confident, friendly and fun. I'm super nice too! And Smart, and guys find me attractive.
I JUST DON"T GET IT!!! :'(
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U can just call it bad luck i guess. Ur question doesn't really prove anything about ur being unlovable. Can't really say about first two guys but last one did try. I think u should have taken a more forward approach with ur feelings with that guy. He might be thinking that u've not shown any special interest in 4 dates. Dont worry and u seriously dont need to be depressed. A lot of people appreciate u , adore u as u said. So obviously u r a lovable person. Be happy and stay away from depressed thoughts.1