i m fat and i see guys do not like me and they directly push me in the friend zone ! i feel very down i want to know the reason
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Hey, there is fat people:
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and then there are FAT people:
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Either way it doesn't really matter. Sure current social medias show thin models, but even if we get influenced by it, it doesn't matter as much as we believe. For example, whenever I watch TV, there will be some publicity about BurgerKing and then one about McDonalds. This doesn't incite me to go to either of those places. What I'm trying to say is probably that our social media are build around being thing. As a few hundreds years ago it was pretty have white bleach skin to show that you were highborn and now having darker, tanned skin is pretty. Media sets the rules of what beauty those days are and we (general population) get influenced by it.
The reason it shouldn't matter is because there are all kinds of people on this word. Some men like short girls, other tall, thin, thick, black, white, latin, caucasian,… you get my point. Even if they might be less people out there who like "thicker" girls, mainly because of our media influence you shouldn't get bothered too much by it.
I'm saying this like this, but I probably know how you feel, I used to be very thick boy when I was young and felt the same way, that no girls were interested in me, but this wasn't the case. Either way I changed and became what I am now, I guess what I society calls a "normal" looking guy. Changing yourself is only your job to do, no-one or anything will do it for you, you'll have to do some hard work but it will be worth it if you really desire to change yourself ;)
Hang in there0