Okay, so I'm a gay male, going into my senior year of high school and I'm hopelessly in love with this guy. The only problem is that he's straight.
I've had a bad habit of falling for straight guys but this particular guy has me falling so hard for him. He's the most attractive person (in my view) that I've ever seen, he's also a senior.
I'm in a predicament trying to figure out if I should tell him if I'm in love with him (or at least attracted to him) because I don't know how he'll respond. I really want to tell him before high school ends, but it's a hard situation. I'm not sure if it would be different if he was gay or not.
Does anyone have any advice?
Thank you :-)
There is a possibility that he's bi, or gay (if he faked his previous relationship,) and I just want to tell him that I think he's attractive so he knows, maybe make him feel good about his appearence.
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I wouldn't tell him, even if he is okay with you being gay, straight guys don't always react well when they find out a gay guy is attracted to him. You already know he's straight so there's no way a relationship could happen and it might just backfire on you. Some guys think it's flattering when gay guys are attracted to them but usually they just feel awkward and unsure how to react to the love/attraction or get defensive and angry.
I would just keep admiring him secretly and hopefully you will find an amazing even more attractive guy who is gay in the future! (:0