So i dated a guy in january- February and we hit it great, and he was amazing and we had a great time together.
But unfortunatly he didn't live in my town and things got harder, and we stopped talking for a little while, and i managed to ask him if he wasn't interested anymore, and he said he isn't looking for anything serious because he doesn't have the time for it.
He traveles a lot with work and school so i totally understand, and we met when he was on work buisness meetings..
and he got out of a 6 year long relationship last year.. but we have remained friends. . and at times he "likes" my posts on fcb.. and i know those mean nothing but still
well tomorrow is his birthday.. and we havnt spoken since april.. when it was my birthday.. he wrote on my wall
so should i write him an inbox message.. since he now does live in my town.. but he is currently in asia on vacation..
should i write him a inbox message saying happy birthday, hope you are doing well.. in hope of opening a new conversation with him.. or does that come off as needy? since he has said he wasn't looking for anything serious atm..
cause if a guy likes you he will reach out when he wants to talk right? so maybe a simple wall post is better?
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You can but I would simply say Happy Birthday". Saying "Hope you are doing well" sounds needy. Open the door with a Happy Birthday and let him come the rest of the way. If you have ever seen the movie Hitch? Go 95% of the way and let her come the other 5% for the kiss... It still applies here, you are just going the 5% first.0
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