I'm curious what may be on my girlfriend's mind. Do you let the guy contact you first so you don't appear needy? Do you show affection in some circumstances, but not in others? What rules do you follow?
What rules do you expect men to follow? Is it too much if a man texts multiple times a day? Do you expect men to be decisive? What other rules may you expect?
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Woah woah woah. Hold up. The great news is, there are no defined rules. (hmmm, maybe that makes it harder? haha) It's all up to you and your partner, no matter what anyone else says. You two just need to be on the same page. You can't read her mind, and she can't read yours--communication is key, seriously. If you're curious, just ask. It'll show that you care that you perform well in the relationship. Don't think of them as rules, but as understanding one another better. You'll get more comfortable with each other hopefully and find out what works for you and what doesn't. Then you'll be comfortable enough to ask "Do I text you too much?" etc. Hope this helps! It's great to see that you care so much. Good luck!1