Say you've been together for a year...
She doesn't want to have kids right now, but she wants them in the future, and she wants to talk about when, how many, etc.
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Certainly not. In a relationship you have to be frank and open with each other.
So if you have a wish to have children, talk about it.
Imagine you would not do that, since you're afraid his/her reaction would be negative.
You would have an unhappy feeling. If, months later, you finally find the courage to ask it and your loved one is as enthousiastic as you, it would be a very silly feeling.
So just talk about it. That always works :-)0