Like I'll focus on one and ignore the other even though I barely know any of them.
I thought I could talk to multiple guys I have interest in all at once but it's hard to evenly distribute my time and feelings.
I always end up committing to just one (usually the one I'm most drawn to by looks) and spend all my time trying to get the guy only to find he just wants to be friends!
If the guy is good looking but not hot I can control myself and not get too attached so easily. Things usually go well but I usually see these guys as friends because I don't have that lust (sexual attraction) I mean their face is attractive but not in a way I get turned on. I love talking to these guys and I'm hardly ever nervous around them.
Most Helpful Guy
Its the same problem faced by most people, when they prioritize the other person's looks over everything else. You just need to keep telling yourself that looks are only temporary, and they fade with age when people become all wrinkly.
I'm not so sure about why the guys would only want to be friends, though. I've given up analyzing this aspect because I myself am considered 'too unattractive' in women's eyes for anything more than friendship. But it doesn't matter to me. Women don't give a crap about me, and I don't give a crap about them either.1
Most Helpful Girl
Try not to include him into your life so soon like make him a side quest. Your own life before you met him should be your priority1