So, before everything happened, I did have feelings towards my roommate. All of a sudden one night, he kissed me. We made out a few times. And I asked him what we were. He said he will give me the answer soon enough. We hold hands, we hugged and everything seems to be going the right way.
Then few days after, he said he didn't see us together. He like me not in an affection way. However, he still wanted to kiss me saying that because we were friends, so I let him. Eventually, few days after I wanted to kiss him, he said no. Because he said he had already made things clear.
I'm really heart-broken. I'm in my 20s and this is the first guy I ever fell so quick and so deep. Oh and that was my first kiss as well. Oh and did I mention he's actually younger than me, so I felt like I'm being played by a younger guy and that kind of pissed me off.
So, what am I supposed to do? He's going to be my roommate for at least another year. We still hang out as friends but I kept on wanting him and care for him.
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With the 'Kiss in the nite' Also Came a Shot in the dark And--------He realized that it was a mistake, being you Both going Still share the same nest. He was scared everything May go South, causing even your friendship to be less than two birds of a feather. He obviously isn't crowing about it.
And on top of this, he also gave it some thought that he really wasn't Into a 'Live in' deal, but just a 'Roomy 'mate deal instead.
Lick your wounds and try and accept it. However if you are this hurt, maybe it's best to give him a two weeks notice that you will be packing ship and leaving the poop deck.
He's young yet, younger than you. And he most likely isn't ready for anything steady at this point. As much as this 'Pees' you off, I don't feel that he 'played' you, but just got caught up in the heated moment, and caught himself After the fact.
Good luck. xx0
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