In these days and times I see a lot of females that don't have standards, morals or self esteem have boyfriends and even husbands. I see females who are known in the area as a fast girl or hot in the pants and just because she has a nice body and dresses half naked guys want her. They want to marry these types of women and treat them like queens. They want the girls who consider their self a"bad b****", the fast girls, the rude women etc but I often find females like me alone, hardly ever approached, and treated horrible. Sometimes it makes me feel a bit sad that I can't find a good and decent guy who loves me for me and wants to treat me like a queen. I'm intelligent, funny, sweet, kind, caring, I have a big heart, I'm attractive and I also have a really nice figure. I have standards, morals and goals. a lot of girls think I must have all the men running to me but in reality its the opposite. People are shocked when I tell them that I'm 22 and I've only had two boyfriends. Both of which treated me terrible and broke my heart. And the guys I have tried talking to and get to know were really rude and a**holes towards me. Guys don't really approach me at all. I started to think something was wrong with me because how is it that a gorgeous girl with a beautiful heart and mind gets treated so bad and is over looked and ignored. I see every one else around me with boyfriends or husbands and they're so happy. I'm happy for them, I wish I could have that and experience that too one day. I don't know what it is. I don't know if guys are intimidated by me because I'm pretty or what but it sucks because I'm such a nice person but people really don't bother to get to know me. Especially guys. Sometimes I think I might end up alone forever. Why don't guys like good women anymore?
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Your situation can be explained by several possibilities.
1) Guys are covetous towards sex. It's hardwired into our brains. These fast girls dole out sex. They're easy. Where there's supply there's demand. These women give what the guys want and the guys keep these girls around so that they continue getting sex.
These so-called 'good girls' don't give out sex at all or as easily, so the guys go to where they can get sex.
2) These 'good girls' don't make their interest known on any level. They're quiet, they avoid people. They look unapproachable or uninterested. They expect guys to make the first move but these guys don't know that these girls want these guys to approach them. Noone takes the first step so noone gets anywhere.
3) These 'good girls', especially the attractive ones, are already taken and off the market. Guys are subconsciously predisposed into believing this already, so when they see an attractive girl their default thought is "she's probably taken". That may or may not be true but how is a guy supposed to know if the girl is not taken if she's not giving out an availability signals?0