I've been with my boyfriend for about a month and I stayed at his place for a week except for one night. A few days later I used his phone to ring somebody and I saw 3 calls to his ex on the night we weren't with each other but I ignored this.
About 2 weeks ago, I looked through his texts to her and saw that he has been going to her place frequently over the last few months, 2/3 times a week to smoke marijuana. When i confronted him about it, he denies that they are anything more than friends but I don't believe him inside. He told me earlier in the relationship that he was with this girl for 8 months last year but has never spoke about her or said that they are good friends.
We haven't spoken about since then and I don't know what to do. Am i naive to think to that he isn't cheating or should I trust my instinct?
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It's a step in the right direction to cheating. Too much secrecy isn't that good, but too little is just pathetic.3