So I've thought this girl (with a bf) i work with had a crush on me for the longest time. When I first started she would stare at me in meetings and flip her hair around until I looked. She would like find ways to be around me all the time as I was constantly bumping into her. One day I stopped her in the hall to chat and she turned bright red and could barely talk. Shortly after this we were taking the same breaks in the morning and walking and talking together most daily, but be. She'd go missing on me for a while then come back. Over and over repeat. I began to ignore her bc I felt she was sending me mixed signals. This dance happened for about four months. There were times I felt she was flirting with my buddy too, sometimes in front of me sometimes she'd watch me while she did it. I also talked about hot girls in front of her. I began skipping many of our group lunches bc I didn't want to be made jealous. Over time things have grown weird between us. I felt she was moving towards my buddy and I ignored her for 2 months and was cold. He ends up telling me she had been walking/talking with him like we used to and he said it was creeping him out. So this weirdness between her and I is going on a year. She has been Skipping all of the group lunches for the last 7 months, except one when I was out of town and she was happy to tell me about it. I never really see her any more. Now a much younger buddy of mine and her are close and it makes me jealous. He's like really flirty and friendly and I've noticed he keeps going to her desk and chatting with her. They're in the same department down the hall. The other day they sat together at our company meeting. And last week I looked down the hall and saw her chatting at his desk. I walked over to them and she barely acted like I was there till I butted in and she changed her body language over to me and blushed. Then today I saw she emailed him saying he could pick the group lunch, even tho she never goes? Did I ruin it?
Help girls, did I ruin things with her?
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