Could someone give me some tips about not being shy around guys ! Im not lesbo ! I've never had a boyfriend !
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When giving a speech, teaching a class, acting a part in a play, or undertaking any new social event you must prepare in advance what you plan to say and do. A guy here mentioned reading books, which is good and might give you something to have ready for conversation when you meet a friendly guy. It would be good to have a whole list of conversational topics, ones you are familiar with, memorized. If you become nervous while talking, just take a deep breath and slow down. If the other person speaks, you stop talking and listen, nodding uh huh, unh uhn, ummm, and oooh while looking directly at the person.
Of course, you are smiling constantly as appropriate and maintaining frequent eye contact (not a fixed stare). Stand or sit as closely as you may to the guy flirting with you (if you like him, of course, as in all I mention here) or the guy you are flirting with. Consider the kind of guy you'd like to meet. What might he prefer that a girl wear? Some guys like painted nails, others don't. But you want your fashion to reflect his. Wear a bit of discreet red color when you want to be noticed.
When you catch a guy staring at you, smile back. If he catches you staring at him, smile, then momentarily look away, then back at him. This may happen a few times before he comes over to talk to you. To add emphasis to your staring, you can raise both eyebrows simultaneously just a bit as if you were recognizing someone in a crowd. After you've attracted a guy, even if only for few moments, reflect on what you were doing or saying or wearing, et cetera, that might have attracted him to you.
Your words and behavior can help you master your social environment.0