My friend has this problem. He's miserable and he can't enjoy life because his confidence with women is shot. He feels that what he has physically, intellectually, and materially will never compare to other guys and he is ashamed to be a man in this world.
I have no idea what to tell him. He really wants to abandon his dream of finding a woman to love because he feels she will never love him the same for all his faults and flaws. I'm at a loss here. I wish I could help him end his pain. If only there WAS a way he could just stop desiring women. Maybe he could start being happy with what he has. He's not a bad guy I must admit. He's a great friend and we really appreciate him...
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Well... why not forget about girls for a while? He -should- focus on achieving his goals without the distraction of girls lol. And when he's done, he'll be more confident about himself and that'll certainly help with dating and whatnot. I mean- I'm kind of doing the same thing, not bothering with dudes anymore and I feel okay about it. I think people dramatize the need for women or men. It can wait.0
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