When my last relationship ended 5 1/2 years ago I was financially and morally ruined. My heart was basically ripped to shreds. I had a somewhat mutual ending of a 6 year relationship with a really nice girl. I wanted out more than her. Her father passed and we drifted apart. I moved away started a business and met a beautiful lady who I was surely going to marry. She later cheated on me with many people, dumped me and then proceeded to cheat on her new boyfriend with me. All I wanted was a faithful woman and I needed her to let things play out naturally during that tense time in my life. Instead I became suspicious of everything and all my fears were later confirmed. Because of her unfaithfulness and me being so far from home I started going to strip clubs and having sex with strippers. Even the strippers would tell me should leave her. I couldn't, I desperately wanted her to stop cheating and just be with me. I eventually lost my business because of the hold I let her have over me and came back home heart and financially broken and morally empty. It took me years to even think about wanting someone because I couldn't trust people and now I find myself slowly thinking that now that my situation is a bit better in my heart and finances that maybe, just maybe I should start looking again. Now everything is Facebook etc. I'm not even sure I know how to approach women anymore. I will be 39 next month so I would like to eventually find a cool lady to hang out with. What is the best way to go about that these days in this new techie world?
Most Helpful Guy
Ask some girl friends (or the partners of guy friends) to hook you up with some stress-free hassle-free simple dates with some single girls they know. Not looking for "the one", just to take out to dinner or something and dust off the skill-set.0