So I've been texting this guy and we usually talk for hours, usually to 3-4 am. We usually talk every other day or so. The longest we haven't talked was maybe 4 days.
I know you aren't supposed to talk to the person you like every single day, because it can get boring. Which I completely understand.
So what would you say your maximum is, before you should start worrying?
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As long as you want. Someone who truly cares will be happy to hear from you months later. There's no guarantee they'll be single then but if they care they'll still be happy to talk to you. Texting has really messed up dating. In the past people wouldn't speak to each other for weeks or months but they continued on with their lives until that person came back. Did they stop caring about each other? No probably not. The bonds we make face to face are much stronger and should always take priority. Cell phones however have fostered this idea of perpetual closeness where someone is constantly responding positively to you and you can remain away from the discomfort of rejection but it's a fake high. When you're texting someone you're not really into them you're into the fantasy version of him that you've built from a few written words. It's a fake high just like a drug. The more often you do it the higher you get and the harder you crash. So tell the guy that you really like him but you want to spend more face to face time and less texting. Or at least that's what I recommend.2