when no girl allows me near her , rejects/ignores me so quick , insults me/ calls me ugly , etc...
SOO many rejections , my family thinks im gay and not talking to me anymore ( even though i tried telling them that ). My friends just mock me for being the only guy (21) who has never even been hugged by a female.
where do i find girls who are not attractive who are willing to settle for us ugly guys.
Most Helpful Girl
Well hun, there are two types of ugly:
The first type of ugly is genetic and can't be fixed.
The second type is the "I just don't take care of myself and never worry about my appearance" ugly.
Now an ugly person could be either one of these, or they could be both of these. You shouldn't focus on whether or not you are the first type of ugly, because that can't be fixed. However, if you are the second type... well you can change that. Here's some tips:
1. Dress appropriately. Wear clothes that fit, clothes that go through the laundry regularly, clothes that don't have stains in them. Large baggy t- shirts with stains and sagging pants make a guy look sloppy.
2. Take care of your face. Wash the gook out of your eyes in the morning, brush your teeth (you may be used to the breath, but the girl won't), and style your facial hair neatly or just shave it off altogether (your choice). Just don't let it grow out like you just don't care what it freaking does.
3. Take care of your hair. You don't have to make it super stylish, just neat. It generally looks a little sloppy for guys to have hair that sticks out of the side of their head. That is why many trim the sides shorter than the top.
4. Be confident. Confidence is powerful. Put your best foot forward. Think about what your best personality trait is and use it. Perhaps you have a great sense of humor. You could pop a few jokes. Maybe you know a lot of good stories to tell people when they are bored, etc.1
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