We all had it: where a guy at work would check girl out and vice a versa. now, same happening with me. 2 guys seems to be checking me out etc. one of them was looking and broke the ice and now says hi, which is nice. even his mate smiles and said hi other day. other guy noticed me and had a general small conversation. i could see he wants to look but sort of restrains himself. acts strange around me. he checks on me and gave big smile other day.
i am thinking whether it is up to a man to decide whether he sees nice girl and wants more or not, rather just being a work colleague. Sort of checks girl out to see how she reacts by just saying 'hi'.. trying to see how she will react. if i am a descent or not.. obviously, guy wouldn't be looking and saying hi after if he wasn't interested.. so i was just thinking what goes in guys minds when they see nice looking girl like in my case and then eventually break ice with me. do they want to know the girl more or just being friendly etc..
shall i give them more time and see how the conversation goes, look for that sign that guy wants to move etc.
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They want to know more. They want to get to know you because they like you. They're attracted to you and would like to talk with you more.
The absolute best case scenario in guy's minds would be if the girl actually reciprocates and makes an effort to talk to him. If you were to do this, I guarantee that the guy (s) would appreciate it. Only lead on a guy if you're actually interested in him though. This means you should only be doing this with one of the guys (or neither of them) if you're not interested in either.0