All I get is ones wanting sex if I do not give they disappear and stop texting me. They say all girls are slags and say they want a classy girl they date me and expect sex date two when I do not give theymoan. So much for not wanting an easy chick.
I know guys are visual. and what not. I just would like a guy who wants to know me too not just explore my body. Never really been. in love. Had four bfs. One a narcissistic pig, another a sociopath type of guy who did the whole. disappear reappear thing. One who was just too young to settle. An a compulsive. liar. Also the sociopath guy was controlling.
I am a caring girl who does make a good girlfriend I just can not seem. to. find a good guy to date. It makes. me sad when people around me. are getting married or having babies.. also moving. in with their bfs. I feel like my lovelife is doomed. I am 21 nearly 22 in next. few years I would want to be at least engaged or moved in with a SO.
I feel like I am. not. meant. to be happy. I am. fun and I do get a lot of attention the wrong kind though. Guys seem. to want me sexually or make. advances very early. on. I get guys saying I can be your fuck. buddy or lets have. fun. Never had a real. date before either.
Guys get mad at me when I do not want just sex but I am being honest I want. more. Guys whistle, stare, follow me, and use chat up lines. cringey. ones. i am not fussy I have dated ugly average and good looking guys but I seem. to. find guys with issues and mental problems an it makes. me think. does this say something about. me :/
I now. give up looking for the one and I do not. know what future. holds guess we all. dont. I do not meet guys in. clubs or anything, usualy on my travels and through friends.
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The great thing about guys who only want sex, is that they are usually a self-eliminating problem.
Deny them your body and they WILL go away.
I know it is hard to see that one day you may be happy with someone. I am thirty- four and I have been alone for sixteen years. It is easy for me to think that I will never find someone who will want to love me.
But the truth is, I am maturing. I am being made ready (By God) for the mate He has for me. And this is a long process, because of all the junk I have been through, and all the sexual stuff I did. I need to be healed.
Loving someone is far more complicated and intensive than most people are aware of, unfortunately. And nobody wants to do the introspection needed to be "right" for the opposite sex.
You can give up on looking, but do not close up your heart, or when the man who wants to spend the rest of his life with you comes by, you will miss him entirely.1