I work second shift at a local grocery store in the backroom. There is this guy named Andrew who works first shift. We never really talked besides playing paper football and having short conversations in the break room before I started work. One day out of no where he came up to me before he left for the night and asked me for my number. He was shy and nervous. I thought it was cute. Well, we started talking more and texting and it turns out that we have a lot in common. I work with mainly men and he works with mainly women. I was talking to the guys about how Andrew asked me for my number and they were surprised because they thought he was gay because he's "flamboyant" as Scott says. I don't really know many of the SFS (Ship From Store) ladies that he works with besides one because she's my cousin and as I'm starting work, they are leaving. I talked to her about him and she said that we'd make a cute couple. I unload the store's grocery truck. One day the truck was late so while everyone else hung out in the break room, I hung out in SFS and talked to Megan (my cousin) and Andrew. Well, the truck came so I had to get back to doing my own thing, The SFS people have to come past where I work to load their stuff into the FedEx truck. Two of the ladies asked me if I like Andrew and I said "yes" and then they said that we'd make a cute couple and they said about how he wanted to wait until he got this car that he has been saving up for before he asks me out. The car however, got sold and he is really bummed out so now he is looking at another car. The thing is is that I don't want to wait anymore for him to ask me out. Is that wrong of me? It's been a month.. now a couple days into the second month and he hasn't asked me yet. I'm not desperate or anything but I don't know how long it will be until he gets this car. I've been told that he doesn't date much because he's embarrassed that he doesn't have a car of his own to take girls out.
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There are probably two issues. 1) He may be a little shy and you might have to make the first move. 2) If he doesn't have a car, he might be embarrassed, but you can drive (if you have a car) and meet him or pick him up somewhere if he is OK with that. Or the two of you can just meet somewhere on a weekend. He is obviously interested in you and you need to help move the situation along.0