I meet this girl but she has a bf , but she still seems interested and I'm really interested in her. I just don't want all the drama of she cheated on him etc. I would rather we start fresh and she just be honest with him and her self that she really wasn't that interested in him anymore and that she has meet someone new that she is more into.
should I tell her that I would really like to date her and fool around with her in the bedroom but I'd really prefer she dump the bf first and then we could start a new relationship without anyone else to worry about
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I could write a long opinion on why you should do this, about all the trouble, all the little games and vices, all the little evils, etc. that will come from this. I say WILL versus "can," because too many people say "can," when it's WILL.
You are totally justified in asking her this, but don't just be blunt and say, I need you to break up with him." Try not to use the word "you." Instead say something like, "I cannot have sex with someone who is in another relationship. I need to know that my partner is being exclusive." Or morph around those words in an order that sounds like something you would say.0