My bf and I have been dating for almost a year. I moved in with him a little after we first started dating because he asked me to and I thought we would give it a try. We probably fight more then most couples dating this short of a period since we lived together for most of our relationship but we seem to make it work. I also have trust issues due to my past which he gets mad about sometimes cuz he just wants me to trust him. Well im. writing this mainly because of how he canact when we r out. When we first started dating he acted like we were together when we were out. Now sometimes he doesn't talk to me much so basically ignores me. His dad can sometimes be like that to with his wife.. another thing that upsets me is he has told his friends I smell and sometimes talks negative about our sex life.. couple nights ago we were out and his cousin was flirting with me and wanted to touch my. boobs jokingly. My bf said yeah she's wearing a pushup bra n they really hang down an inch , inch 1/2 in front of his friends. It makes me feel like shit when he says that stuff cuz I feel not attracted to me or just likes to embarrass me. I asked why he talks shit about me n he says he doesnt. N then I brought up what he said couple nights ago n he said he was just kidding n he's sorry. But he's the type. that. if I make him mad he will try n make me. mad or be a jerk. Why does he say that stuff. about me. to. his friends but yet tells me. he wants to be with me. forever?
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Just tell him you don't like it. Tell him he needs to stop talking negatively, even if its a joke, about you to his friends and family.
I can see it as a joke tho... in his defense. You have to ask yourself this: do your boobs really hang lower than an inch? If they obviously don't then he must have obviously been joking. Sure, it's a crude kind of joke but that's just his personality. I don't really take things like that seriously though, I always take them as jokes because I know that some people joke around like that, even me.
He could be a really open and up-front kind of guy. I know sometimes I talk like that but it doesn't really mean anything0
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