Look at all the judgemental, narrow-minded, sexist comments on my last question:
"you are despicable", "you are literally the worst", "you are scum", "you are a train wreck", "sickening", "selfish and despicable", "you have no sense of morality or reality"
Firstly, I don't conform to society's arbritary moral code. I live by my own rules. If I'm sexually attracted to him, then I'm going to sleep with him, married or not, I don't care about a piece of paper. If a married man is cheating with me, their marriage is completely meaningless, and it was over long before he met me.. If he is having sex with me, he doens't love her.. I'm doing her a favour, so that she can get a divorce, and move on.
Also, I'd never ever have a serious relationship with, or marry a cheater. This is purely sexual.. I'm exploring my sexuality with an older married man.. It's fun and exciting. But that's it. He's way older than me, and I don't see this going anywhere.. In fact, when I break up with him, I'll probably let his wife know.
I do have morals, they're just different to most other people's.
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Because people are dickheads. I don't agree with cheats or the people who agree to be the dirty secret, makes me sick, but the person to be angry at is the person who betrayed and broke somebodys trust. He has duty to be loyal to her, you don't.
But why I think people are dicks, I've seen a million questions similar to yours from men about their married women, and nobody says shit, they even get advice and will laugh at the husband being cheated on. Complete and utter stupidity2