Okay it may sound crazy, but after closing my 2 year relationship and concentrating on myself for about 5-7 months I just want to have the experience of being with someone.
So I've found someone. I think I already made several big whoops, but I'm simply a stranger to her.
Whats crazy about this is I've been in relationships too long to know how to date. I don't know how to go about this. From what I can tell she's trying to get her stuff together. So am I and I think we could vibe if she gave me the time of day.
Now the two big whoops I made are
-She posted on Facebook she wanted to watch a movie, I liked the status and told her she should come and watch Hercules (this was last week). I felt at the time this was smart and could get a conversation started. She saw it and never responded.
-The other whoops is on instagram I made her my WCW and my insta is private and she doesn't follow me so I don't think she know I did it or something cuz she didn't double tap.
I would like to take her out on a date and find out her interest. Get to know one another before we start anything to serious.
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If you have her Facebook info, then simply message her. Say you think she sounds cool and that you'd like to hang out some time. Don't be overbearing about it; just get that out there.
And don't overthink these "whoops" things ;) You're human, dude. People make mistakes (including her), and these don't even sound all that big of deals anyways.
If she ends up turning you down, oh well. In that case, you're still you and you're still awesome. Just keep going on, being the best person you can be, and if she's worth it, she'll notice you. If she doesn't... then somebody even better will :)0