I have feelings for the guy I live with, and I thought I wanted him and his long distance girlfriend to break up, we do flirt, he does touch me, play fight and we talk frequently. They broke up yesterday and I feel so sorry for him, he's in such a depressed mood, not his usually flirty self, what can I do to help him, I feel like he's being Whiny on purpose to get attention but he's really hurt.
How can I help him? And stop feeling this way? Like it's bitter sweet I just want him to be happy but I knew that girl took advantage of him and hurt him a lot, they were always fighting but I know he loves her.
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Console him, yes. However keep up your guard and have boundaries. The sad truth is that, yes you like him, but if you allow him to pursue you at this time or you to pursue him -- you are simply going to be his choice because you were there and you two just happened. I don't think any female wants that unless they are completely selfish in a sense or a tad crazy lol - that is not romantic or loving whatsoever.
I could understand a relationship coming from his break up if you were part of the reason - because he was confused and wanted to be with both of you but couldn't make his mind up and now it hurts when he finally said goodbye to his ex. - that is understandable.
Just becareful and protect your heart.
Also take in consideration that you two live together! -- If this goes sour then so does your living situation.
Take it slow darling. Take it slow. Be his friend... and then see where it goes.0
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