Been dating this girl for a month and a half, had date #3 last Friday (I've been away for a lot of this time). I thought it went well as we'd spent 5 hours drinking, dancing, and making out, she even waited an extra half hour cuddling with me while I waited for my train despite shutting down my offer to come back with me.
Since then I've had 2 major problems hit.
For one I realized I actually really like this girl and don't want to mess this up, which has stressed me out a lot with this girl
For two my schedule cleared up and work is now extremely slow. I have very little to do, resulting in me twiddling my thumbs thinking about this for 4-5 hours a day.
Since then I've been only getting maybe 2-3 messages a day from her, generally all in the morning. We had been at roughly 5-10x that, all throughout the day prior to Friday, though she does give long and detailed messages answering everything I've sent over the previous day. I know she's busy, she worked 13 hours yesterday and she's already told me she's freaking out about her thesis. This entire week is devoted to catching up she's told me... yet it still worries me that I don't hear from her nearly as much.
Am I just overreacting to what's likely still a good thing going for me?
Or should I start taking steps to make sure I don't drive her off?
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It's hard when you're falling for someone to rationalize the situation. Everything becomes a worry. She has told you about what's going on and she has been detailing her messages to you. There is nothing to worry about. She just has a lot on her plate right now and has already promised catch up time. So think of something romantic and creative for the catch up. It will really show her you have been thinking of her.0