I've been on pof for about 4 months now and girls rarely ever respond to my messages. I'd say that at least 80 percent of them are actually read. If they do respond, i'll respond back and normally we don't exchange more than 3 or 4 messages, before she quits responding. I've gotten maybe three or four numbers but no dates out of it. One girl I called and she never even picked up the phone or returned my voicemail I left. It's really disheartening cause i've messaged like 300 girls since i've been on and i've changed my profile a few times also. I just don't get it. I've even approach around a 100 girls in real life and have never even got a phone number. Any ideas? I'm 25 and have never even been on a date before. I wish a girl would just give me a chance. She would probably like me after a little while.
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My friend was on eharm and what made her the most nervous was not really knowing if the person's profile was actually who she was convoing. You never really know who you're chatting with. Guys who were very forward she'd shy away from. She rarely gave out her number b/c it's easier to ignore messages than calls. Plus she lives alone and she was afraid she'd run into a stalker type who was able to google her address, etc. She did meet a few of the guys, tho. She found that many weren't really interested in a relationship but were using the site more for hook-ups. That was a turn off for her. She appreciated the guys who asked thoughtful questions and took the time to message back and forth more than those who requested dates/phone calls first. I don't know if that helps?0