i still really love him, the only reason why I decided to end it was because he 'didn't know' if we were ever going to be able to meet. he got... Show More
all thoughts of him being a creepy pedophile are gone. (:
seriously I'm so happy right now. we talked for like 4 1/2 hours until like 730 in the morning.
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I understand how hard that can be. I always used to make fun of people who met people online until it happened to me. He went to high school with my roommate & we had many mutual friends, but I never met the guy in person. I was shocked when I realized that even though we had never met, hugged, kissed,etc. I really really liked him. Stronger than I had liked almost any guy before. So I understand your situation.
However, it's not the online part that's bad. He doesn't have a phone, or a job and he just got arrested. That would be enough to dump a guy that you do know in real life. Plus, the online thing can only go on for so long. You have to eventually meet the person. After about 4 months of talking with my guy, we realized it would be too hard in our current situations to make anything real come out of it. So we settled for friends. 2 years seems like an awfully long time to have never met the person.
I think you did the right thing for a multiple of reasons. If it's supposed to work out it will.