My bf and I have been dating for almost a year and we live together. I have trust issues due to my past relationships. My bf gets mad because I don't trust him completly. But I don't because sometimes he can be a jerk to me and sometimes acts like he doesn't want to be with me when we are out. We have had plenty of talks about how he needs to change n treat me better that way I will start trusting him if he does. Well he always says he is going to but he doesnt. He tells me I need to change to (as in trusting him and not fighting all the time). We fight because of the way he treats me sometimes. But his dad is the same way n his mom tells me that sometimes he can be a jerk but he is also a softy. Which is why I am still with him because he can be sweet. He has told me he wants to marry me and be with me forever.. why is it so hard for him to change then? He says he will but he doesn't and I don't know what to do anymore because I love him a lot and don't want to break up. I've asked if he wanted me to move out or take a break and he says no.
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If either of you need to change, then you shouldn't be with each other. Sometimes it seems easier to stay in a relationship that you're used to and put up with bullshit, than to move on to something better. It's a tough move to make, I know. Unfortunately, I think he's already proven that he has no intention to change and you'll continue to be unhappy until you move on to someone you fully trust and gives you no reason not to.0