I kinda busted all my ideas on the first girl I ever dated. We were together a few years and we went a lot of places, everywhere, infact. So when we broke up and now I'm seeing another girl, I'm bringing her back to the same places I've been with my first girl.
the place isn't the same, sometimes amusement park rides got upgraded or replaced with a new one, restaurant seating areas look like they got new tables and have iPads now, some streets got more crowded, or we're now visiting different types of stores in the mall.
But it feels sooo weird. It feels like when I go back to the same place, I'm reminded of my ex. Even the rides are less interesting and thrilling now.. Dates feel more like I'm revisiting my memories with this new girl, instead of going on an adventure and new experiences.
I guess I found out why they said, your first is always special. Anyone else had the same feeling too?
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Well I personally think it's okay to go to the same places otherwise you're going to run out of places to go! And if the places aren't as great as they were before, it may be because you're getting bored of going to the same place or maybe you still have feelings for your ex? Good luck anyway :)0