So, I've been dating this guy for a while now but he still hasn't made a move on me. Being honest, i'm getting a little tired. I want some action. How can I spark things up, myself? Does he really like me or not? How can I turn up the heat being a girl?
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Well im not a girl, but going to voice my opinion anyways like a girl would do... SOoooooo
For guys there is 2 ways we usually tackle the situation.
"The planned operation" and the "Shotgun Effect"
IE, We slowly build up and try to figure out the best way to make our move, or we "shotgun" it and say straight up lets do it.
In your case however since you are willing to initiate, you either straight up say "Let's fuck" or tactfully ease your way into a situation then you strike!
Infer that you want to do naughty things, or get drunk with him (maybe bad idea), say you want to go further!
There is also the chance he doesn't like you but doesn't know how to actually end it. So probably a good idea to find out sooner than later.1